Tuesday, January 31, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Announcing Your Pregnancy on Valentine's Day

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Announcing Your Pregnancy on Valentine's Day
Jan 31st 2012, 10:20

Valentines Day Baby

It's almost Valentine's Day and you may be waiting to find out if you're pregnant. Have you considered waiting for this special date to share your big news? Lots of women choose to make pregnancy announcements on special occasions. In fact, we have a few stories to share of Valentine's Day pregnancy announcements. If you get a big fat positive (BFP) on your pregnancy test consider doing something special!

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Announcing Your Pregnancy on Valentine's Day originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, January 31st, 2012 at 10:20:04.

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Monday, January 30, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Belittled for Pregnancy Weight Gain?

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Belittled for Pregnancy Weight Gain?
Jan 30th 2012, 08:59

Pregnant Woman on Scale

At a recent mothers group I attended some of the women were talking about pregnancy weight gain. This isn't an uncommon topic for mother's to discuss, but what really surprised me was what the women had to say about their doctor's attitudes towards weight gain. One mom was about 8 months pregnant and she shared her story.

She had had a rough patch with morning sickness in the beginning and lost a bit of weight in the first trimester. Her doctor had told her not to worry about the weight loss. So as her appetite returned and her nausea dissipated, she began to gain weight. By 24 weeks she had gained a total of 12 pounds. Her doctor saw her chart and mooed at her. He laughed and told her to watch her weight. She thought it odd but wrote it off as a poor attempt at humor.

At her 28 week visit she had gained 3 more pounds, for a total of 15, and the doctor mooed at her again. Then he told her that she really should "learn to push the plate away." When she asked him what he expected her to gain for the pregnancy, he told her that 15 pounds was "plenty." The mom pointed out that she was up 15 from the lowest point, but only a bit over 5 pounds from her prepregnancy weight. He said it didn't matter. He explained that she was setting herself up to get "fat" and to have a ton of pregnancy complications from growing an overly large baby that she'd probably "need a c-section" to get out.

The mom said she was dumbfounded. She walked out and never went back. She called her friend and got a recommendation for a new OB/GYN. She said her new OB actually was encouraging her to eat well and to make her food count. The new office had a nutritionist on board who explained that the weight gain was actually low but on track for a healthy pregnancy. She was glad she switched OBs, but couldn't believe it when other women shared stories about being belittled for pregnancy weight gain as well.

Have you ever been belittled for your pregnancy weight gain?

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Belittled for Pregnancy Weight Gain? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Monday, January 30th, 2012 at 08:59:32.

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Friday, January 27, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Neck Stretch

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Jan 27th 2012, 09:22

Neck Stretch in Pregnancy

Headaches and neck tension can cause you pain in pregnancy. But there is a simple stretch that you can do from your desk or anywhere to help relieve the pain and tension called simply the neck stretch. Have you tried it? You'll love it - try it right now. Doesn't that feel better?

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Neck Stretch originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, January 27th, 2012 at 09:22:56.

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Thursday, January 26, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Home Birth on the Rise

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Jan 26th 2012, 12:00

This mother is snuggling with her newborn baby at a home water birth.

Historically speaking, home birth was were the vast majority of babies were born prior to the 1900s. As recently as the 19040s, home birth comprised 44% of the births in the United States. This number had dropped to about 1% by 1969. This is were the number stayed for many years. In a recent look at the data, the CDC found that the number of home births has been on the rise in recent years, since about 2004 - by about 29%.

While the absolute number is still low, 29,650 births in 2009, this increase is notable. About 1 in 90 births to non-hispanic white women are home births. There are also more women who are over 35, married and low risk giving birth at home. They feel that this means that women are being screened to accept only low risk women in the home birth setting.

Of the home births only 5% were attended by physicians, 33% were listed as other, this could be mother, father, friend, emergency medical personnel, etc. This leaves 62% of home births being attended by midwives. (19% certified nurse midwives and 43% other midwives (including certified professional midwives, direct entry midwives, etc.) This compares to 92% of births in a hospital being attended by physicians, with about 7% attended by midwives.

While they tried to look briefly at why women were choosing home birth, let's face it, birth certificate data doesn't ask you why you chose where you gave birth. The reasons most moms choose home birth are varied and complex. Some reasons that mothers give for choosing home birth include:

  • Believe it's safer for mom and baby (tied to no over use of technology)
  • Lower intervention and cesarean rates
  • Preferred the care of midwives
  • Wanted to be in own environment
  • About 1/3 the cost of a hospital birth

The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) says that when decided on a home birth a mother should make sure that she is a good candidate for home birth (e.g. low risk), that she should choose a doctor or midwife who is qualified and has ready "access to consultation" and the ability to transport to a hospital in a timely manner should the need arise.

Do you know someone who has had a home birth?

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American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Committee Opinion: Planned Home Birth. Number 476. February 2011.

MacDorman MF, Mathews TJ, Declercq E. Home births in the United States, 1990- 2009. NCHS data brief, no 84. Hyattsville, MD: National Center for Health Statistics. 2012.

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Home Birth on the Rise originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, January 26th, 2012 at 12:00:43.

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Wednesday, January 25, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: What do you call the grandparents?

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What do you call the grandparents?
Jan 25th 2012, 08:56

Grandparents and Newborn

When I first got pregnant, I knew my mom would want to pick some really random name to be called by the baby.  When she became an aunt she wanted to be called Aunty Mame.  (My cousins called her Mamie instead!).  So rather than pick something normal like grandma, nana or nearly anything else, she wanted to be known as Grand.  Well, the kids all called her Grandy and today it still stands, even 21 years after she became a grandma.

What do the kids in your family call grandparents?  Do you let the kids pick the names?  Or the grandparents?  Did your parents care?  Let me know in the comments what you have to say about naming the grandparents.

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What do you call the grandparents? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Wednesday, January 25th, 2012 at 08:56:08.

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Tuesday, January 24, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Miscarriage: It Just Sucks

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Miscarriage: It Just Sucks
Jan 24th 2012, 08:52

Sad Couple Comforting Each Other

Having a miscarriage or other pregnancy loss is hard on anyone.  I know that when we had our pregnancy losses, my husband was just as devastated as I was, only he lacked the support that I had. Ryan tells of his experience as a father after a miscarriage:

"My wife and I had two miscarriages.  I don't deal with the hormonal and physical issues, but the baby was real in my heart and dreams.  My wife heard all of the terrible things that people say.  The most helpful comment came from my friend who had also dealt with a miscarriage.  I told him about it, and he said , 'There's nothing to say except it sucks.'  My wife and I have used the 'it sucks' comment a lot since then.  There's really no explanation--it just sucks."

What was your experience as a father after miscarriage?  Or how did your partner respond after you had a miscarriage?

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Miscarriage: It Just Sucks originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, January 24th, 2012 at 08:52:55.

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Monday, January 23, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Worried About No Pregnancy Symptoms?

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Worried About No Pregnancy Symptoms?
Jan 23rd 2012, 09:01

Sad Woman

We spend a lot of time talking about pregnancy symptoms. What they are, what they mean and how to deal with them. The truth is that makes a lot of women feel really nervous. They have a positive pregnancy test. They assume they are pregnant and they wait for the pregnancy symptoms. But when the morning sickness, fatigue and everything else that's possible fails to set in, what's a mom to think?

The first thing to realize is that you shouldn't panic.  Many moms don't experience pregnancy symptoms until the sixth week of pregnancy, once the hormones reach certain levels and your baby is the size of a black eyed pea.  (Then you might be missing your symptom free days!)  It is also possible that you're one of the women who don't feel horribly during your pregnancy, the ones that have a relatively easy time of it and that's okay too. There is really only one time to worry.

Tell me in the comments: Did you have a symptom free pregnancy?

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Worried About No Pregnancy Symptoms? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Monday, January 23rd, 2012 at 09:01:15.

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Friday, January 20, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Late First Trimester Worst Time to Drink in Pregnancy

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Late First Trimester Worst Time to Drink in Pregnancy
Jan 20th 2012, 08:49

10 week fetus

Not that there is ever a good time for drinking in pregnancy, again confirmed by a study, but there has been found by a recent study that there is a worst time - late in the first trimester.  This study done in Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research showed that there was an increase in physical symptoms of fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS) for mothers who drank in the later half of the first trimester.  It also reconfirmed that there is no safe amount of alcohol in any part of pregnancy.  The good news here is that this period of time is typically after a positive pregnancy test, giving the majority of mothers a heads up.

Did you drink before you knew you were pregnant?

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Feldman, H. S., Jones, K. L., Lindsay, S., Slymen, D., Klonoff-Cohen, H., Kao, K., . . . Chambers, C. (2012). Prenatal Alcohol Exposure Patterns and Alcohol-Related Birth Defects and Growth Deficiencies: A Prospective Study. Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research. doi: 10.1111/j.1530-0277.2011.01664.x

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: What a Newborn Baby Looks Like

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What a Newborn Baby Looks Like
Jan 20th 2012, 09:15

Newborn Vernix

You're probably looking very forward to the day that your baby is born.  You've been imagining it for months.  One thing that most parents tell me about their expectations versus reality of this moment is that the baby usually looks very differently than they anticipated.

Most babies have at least one of characteristics of a newborn in their appearance.  What do you think would surprise you the most or did surprise you the most?

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What a Newborn Baby Looks Like originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, January 20th, 2012 at 09:15:46.

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Thursday, January 19, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Pregnancy About.com Readers' Choice Awards

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Jan 19th 2012, 08:41

About.com 2012 Readers' Choice Awards

The 2012 About.com Readers' Choice Awards will showcase the best products, features and services in dozens of categories. Readers' Choice includes multiple channels ranging from technology to hobbies to parenting. The categories for Pregnancy and Childbirth include:

Nominations are currently be accepted. Voting will take place from Feb. 22 through March 21 with winners announced March 30. There's no prize -- just the bragging rights that come with getting recognized by the readers of one of the most popular websites. To learn more, visit awards.about.com.

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Pregnancy About.com Readers' Choice Awards originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, January 19th, 2012 at 08:41:25.

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Wednesday, January 18, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: 7 Reasons You Can't Have an Epidural

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7 Reasons You Can't Have an Epidural
Jan 18th 2012, 08:29

When Elizabeth Hasselbeck welcomed one of her sons, she was asked if she got an epidural for pain relief in labor, she says "I did but I think I'm immune to the epidural, because it didn't work for me. That's a problem." This is why many anesthesiologists recommend taking a childbirth class, even if you're planning on an epidural.

No matter how you feel about epidurals, you still need to have some information about them. I've seen lots of women decide before labor that epidurals were exactly what they wanted only to find out they couldn't have one. Don't get left in that rough spot. The same can be said for women who were positive they did not want an epidural and changed their minds.

Epidurals are the most popular form of medicinal pain relief in labor and birth. But there might be reasons why you can't have an epidural. Find out what you need to know before labor.

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7 Reasons You Can't Have an Epidural originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Wednesday, January 18th, 2012 at 08:29:37.

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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Leap Day Babies!

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Leap Day Babies!
Jan 17th 2012, 08:47

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Welcome to 2012 - a Leap Year!  That means that at the end of February, we'll get a whole extra day, February 29th.  This only happens roughly every four years.  Some people are fascinated by the concept of a Leap Day and others are just plodding through life blissfully unaware, but, when you're pregnant, there is always the chance that you'll have a Leap Day Baby.

There might even be some families out there who are hoping to have a baby born on Leap Day.  I've read some pretty crazy stories about birth certificate fights, inductions and other antics to either achieve or avoid this day.  Where do you fall in the whole Leap Day craze? (Even if it doesn't personally effect you?)

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Leap Day Babies! originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, January 17th, 2012 at 08:47:51.

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Friday, January 13, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Choosing a Practitioner for Your Pregnancy

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Choosing a Practitioner for Your Pregnancy
Jan 13th 2012, 09:30

Prenatal Care

So, you're pregnant! Congrats, now who will provide your prenatal care? Do you care if you have a woman or a man? Do you prefer a midwife to a doctor? Do you even know all of the options that you have? Believe it or not the choices are more than midwife or doctor... Where do they do births? Do they have partners? Ah, so many questions to ask. What is your favorite interview question to ask when interviewing a care provider?

The choice of your practitioner is very important because you will be spending a lot of time with them during the course of your nine months of prenatal care. Some people actually choose one practitioner but then decide at some point that they have chosen the wrong person and wind up switching in pregnancy.

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Choosing a Practitioner for Your Pregnancy originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, January 13th, 2012 at 09:30:37.

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Some Anti-Depressants Raise Questions in Pregnancy

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Some Anti-Depressants Raise Questions in Pregnancy
Jan 13th 2012, 08:30

Pregnancy and antidepressants

New research is out today talking about the use of selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) in pregnancy and how that has been shown in their study to increase the risks of a newborn problem known as persistent pulmonary hypertension in the newborn (PPH). PPH is also known as persistent fetal circulation. Children's Hospital of Colorado explains what's supposed to happen at birth like this:

Normally, when a baby is born and begins to breathe air, his circulatory system quickly adapts to the outside world. The pressure in the lungs changes as air enters and inflates the lungs. As a result, the ductus arteriosus, which previously supplied the fetal heart with blood, permanently closes. Blood returning to the heart from the body can now be pumped into the lungs, where oxygen and carbon dioxide are exchanged.

So the study today says that there may be an increase risk, nearly double, if a mother is taking SSRIs in pregnancy.  Don't go screaming off to the doctor about your prescriptions just yet, however.  There are a couple of things to keep in mind, the first is, that, while this was a large study, it was an observational study, this does not proven that the SSRIs caused the PPH.  Secondly, the absolute risk, meaning how many babies will actually be affected, if this were a cause, is very low. About 1.2 cases of PPH are found per 1,000 live births, so if this study is true, we're talking 3 cases per 1,000.

What should you do if you're taking an SSRI in pregnancy or are considering pregnancy?

  • Talk to your doctor about your prescriptions.  This includes your prescribing doctor and your OB or midwife.
  • If you aren't yet pregnant, be sure to have this discussion at a preconceptional health visit.  Perhaps there are other anti-depressants that you can switch to or other therapies to try prior to pregnancy.
  • Ask about the specific risk to you and your pregnancy.  The risk of not taking the medication may be greater for you than the risk of the PPH.
  • Realize that there is still a lot of research to be done.  Studies have varied on this topic.

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Kieler H, et al "Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors during pregnancy and risk of persistent pulmonary hypertension in the newborn: population-based cohort study from the five Nordic countries" BMJ 2012; DOI:10.1136/bmj.d8012.

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Some Anti-Depressants Raise Questions in Pregnancy originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, January 13th, 2012 at 08:30:26.

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Thursday, January 12, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: 25 Early Pregnancy Symptoms You Might Miss

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25 Early Pregnancy Symptoms You Might Miss
Jan 12th 2012, 08:30

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Are you trying to get pregnant? Trying to figure out if you're pregnant or not can be a big deal. I know that my first sign of pregnancy is different than most people - I get horribly, can't-get-your-head-out-of-bed exhausted. This usually happens before a late period even. Some women know they are pregnant from the time of conception, because they are so tuned in to their bodies. Sore breasts rank fairly high on the list of new signs of pregnancy. Other women need that pregnancy test to show them what they may be wondering about. What was your first pregnancy symptom?

What was your first pregnancy symptom?

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25 Early Pregnancy Symptoms You Might Miss originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, January 12th, 2012 at 08:30:08.

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Tuesday, January 10, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Does Hospital Pre-resgitration Matter in Labor?

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Does Hospital Pre-resgitration Matter in Labor?
Jan 10th 2012, 09:32

Pregnant Woman Checking in at Hospital

Many hospitals offer pre-registration for labor and birth.  It usually involves a basic form that asks about your name, insurance info and a bit of information about your pregnancy like your due date, midwife or doctor's name.  But many people dilligently turn in these forms every year only to have experiences like Mig. Mig says,

"I pre-registered at the hospital, brought a copy of the pre-registration, my husband was standing there with our insurance cards and all that crap, and the admittance nurse STILL wouldn't admit us until I, personally, in the throes of labor, gave her my name, address, and insurance information about a million times while she typed away with two fingers on what a swear must have been one of the original IBM desktops. She kept pointing at some poor woman moaning behind a curtain, saying, 'She's been here 3 hours already. You have time to fill out this paperwork.' It was absolute justice when my water broke all over the reception furniture and her shoes.  My son was in my arms less than 2 hours later."

Did you have any issues like this surrounding registration?  How did you handle it?

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Does Hospital Pre-resgitration Matter in Labor? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, January 10th, 2012 at 09:32:54.

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