Friday, January 18, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Choose Who You Tell Early Carefully

About Pregnancy & Childbirth
Pregnancy & Childbirth
Choose Who You Tell Early Carefully
Jan 18th 2013, 09:19

Pregnant Woman Hands on Head

There is always a bit of discussion about who to share your pregnancy announcement with and when. I was about floored reading this story of one couple's experience of telling the wrong people about their pregnancy:

"We had waited almost until the end of the first trimester to tell people, but when we got together with my husband's friend and his wife, we were so happy that we couldn't help but tell them (plus I was showing quite a bit.). After they asked how far along I was, and learned that I was not quite 12 weeks, the wife said, 'God, there was a woman at my work who told everyone about her pregnancy in her first trimester and then ended up losing it. Wouldn't you feel like an idiot if that happened to you?' I was stunned speechless by her thoughtless insensitivity. By a cruel twist of fate, that very night when I went home, I started bleeding and the next morning an u/s confirmed the lack of a heartbeat. I learned some important lessons from this experience though: (1) always be gentle with others and resist giving opinions when people are going through challenges. (2) Choose carefully when you divulge sensitive personal info to people. Not everyone is worthy of your confidences."

What has your experience been?

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Choose Who You Tell Early Carefully originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, January 18th, 2013 at 09:19:43.

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Thursday, January 17, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Do you mind being called huge?

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Do you mind being called huge?
Jan 17th 2013, 13:58

<p><img class="alignnone" src="http://0.tqn.com/d/pregnancy/1/0/N/h/3/08masterson2ndbellyring.jpg" alt="35 Weeks Pregnant - 2nd Baby - Belly Button Ring" /></p> <p>I called someone out on Twitter today for calling a pregnant mom huge. I think the word has a negative connotation and I want pregnant women to feel positively about their growing bodies. I had a great conversation with the person who made the original comment, <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://www.whattoexpect.com/wom/entertainment-news/0117/shakira-shows-off-huge-baby-bump.aspx?xid=tw_wte_sf#">@WhattoExpect</a>. Some one else jumped in and told me that "fat people are the only ones that get offended about the word..." So how do you vote?</p> <p> <script language="javascript" src="http://guidepolls.about.com/pregnancy/8448665773/poll.js?linkback=<!--#echo var="SCRIPT_URI" -n-->"></script> </p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p> <p>Join the conversation!</p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/stay.htm">NEWSLETTER</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pinterest.com/source/pregnancy.about.com/">PINTEREST</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://twitter.com/About_Pregnancy">TWITTER</a></p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://facebook.com/aboutpregnancy">FACEBOOK</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=https://plus.google.com/b/101152721706405948264/">GOOGLE+</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/bio/Robin-Elise-Weiss-LCCE-103.htm">CONNECT</a></p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p> <p><sub>Photo © L. Masterson</sub></p><p style="background:#f5f3ef;border:1px solid #d5d0bf;clear:both;padding:.5em;"><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/do-you-mind-being-called-huge.htm">Do you mind being called huge?</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/">About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth</a> on Thursday, January 17th, 2013 at 13:58:21.</p><p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/do-you-mind-being-called-huge.htm">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/do-you-mind-being-called-huge.htm#gB3">Comment</a> | <a href="http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/shareurl.htm?PG=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/do-you-mind-being-called-huge.htm&zItl=Do you mind being called huge?">Email this</a></p>

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Hospital Tours: Why do they matter?

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Pregnancy & Childbirth
Hospital Tours: Why do they matter?
Jan 17th 2013, 12:30

<p><img class="alignnone" src="http://0.tqn.com/h/pregnancy/1/H/f/4/4/hospitaltourdoor1.jpg" alt="Hospital Tour Door #1" /></p> <p>The <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/od/placeofbirth/a/hospitaltour.htm">hospital tour is something that some moms-to-be don't really give a second thought about</a>. You either do it and get wowed by the "show" or you skip it thinking it doesn't really matter anyway. Both attitudes are usually wrong.</p> <p>Let's address the show first. This is where they show a whole group of pregnant moms the biggest and best room. A room that usually has a fancy bed spread and is prepared just for the tour. This is the one bed spread the hospital owns. I can almost guarantee you that you won't see it when you show up to have your baby. Not all the rooms look like this one, they aren't as big and the furniture is not always as functional. (Think of that crazy wheeled grocery cart you always wind up with...) This room is a bit too perfect, and for good reason. It's not a typical room. Sure, the medical "stuff" is hidden and that's fine, it's the bling that gets me on these tours - the Laura Ashley bed spreads, the music, the birth ball. If you see it on your tour, ask what the chances are you'll see it when you have your baby. Remember, at the end of the day - the tour is a sales pitch and the nurse is a great realtor.</p> <p>Thinking of skipping the tour?  (Particularly after the above commentary?) Well, don't.  The tour is worth it. This is your chance to ask a lot of really good questions about how the hospital will function when you have your baby. The answers, and non-answers, can tell you a lot about the climate, particularly around topics that may be important to you, including baby care, pain relief options, water birth, rooming in, etc.</p> <p>May advice? To get the most out of the tour take people with you, even your doula if you have one. <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/u/ua/placeofbirth/questions-to-ask-at-a-hospital-tour.htm">Prepare a list of questions to ask on the tour</a>, from the mundane (Which door should we come in at 3 a.m.?) to the specific (What's your policy for the number of people in the room at the time of birth?). Tour multiple hospitals, even if you are pretty sure you know where you will wind up. This helps give you perspective as the buyer.</p> <p>What did you think of your hospital tour?</p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p> <p>Join the conversation!</p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/stay.htm">NEWSLETTER</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pinterest.com/source/pregnancy.about.com/">PINTEREST</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://twitter.com/About_Pregnancy">TWITTER</a></p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://facebook.com/aboutpregnancy">FACEBOOK</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=https://plus.google.com/b/101152721706405948264/">GOOGLE+</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/bio/Robin-Elise-Weiss-LCCE-103.htm">CONNECT</a></p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p><p style="background:#f5f3ef;border:1px solid #d5d0bf;clear:both;padding:.5em;"><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/hospital-tours-why-do-they-matter.htm">Hospital Tours: Why do they matter?</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/">About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth</a> on Thursday, January 17th, 2013 at 12:30:55.</p><p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/hospital-tours-why-do-they-matter.htm">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/hospital-tours-why-do-they-matter.htm#gB3">Comment</a> | <a href="http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/shareurl.htm?PG=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/17/hospital-tours-why-do-they-matter.htm&zItl=Hospital Tours: Why do they matter?">Email this</a></p>

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Tuesday, January 15, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Pregnancy Checklist

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Pregnancy Checklist
Jan 15th 2013, 12:28

<p><img class="alignnone" src="http://0.tqn.com/h/pregnancy/1/H/G/3/4/44400_456728643071_2416511_n.jpg" alt="Smiling Newborn" /></p> <p>There is so much to do in a very short nine months. This handy check list starts before baby and walks you through the whole way through, including after the baby comes. <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/od/pregnancycalculators/ss/Your-Pregnancy-To-Do-List.htm">Let's get going!</a></p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p> <p>Join the conversation!</p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/stay.htm">NEWSLETTER</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pinterest.com/source/pregnancy.about.com/">PINTEREST</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://twitter.com/About_Pregnancy">TWITTER</a></p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://facebook.com/aboutpregnancy">FACEBOOK</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=https://plus.google.com/b/101152721706405948264/">GOOGLE+</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/bio/Robin-Elise-Weiss-LCCE-103.htm">CONNECT</a></p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p><p style="background:#f5f3ef;border:1px solid #d5d0bf;clear:both;padding:.5em;"><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/15/pregnancy-checklist.htm">Pregnancy Checklist</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/">About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth</a> on Tuesday, January 15th, 2013 at 12:28:05.</p><p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/15/pregnancy-checklist.htm">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/15/pregnancy-checklist.htm#gB3">Comment</a> | <a href="http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/shareurl.htm?PG=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/15/pregnancy-checklist.htm&zItl=Pregnancy Checklist">Email this</a></p>

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Monday, January 14, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Nominations Open for Readers' Choice Awards 2013

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Nominations Open for Readers' Choice Awards 2013
Jan 14th 2013, 07:55

<p><img class="alignnone" src="http://0.tqn.com/h/pregnancy/1/H/c/4/4/cpg13911.png" alt="About.com 2013 Readers' Choice Awards" /></p> <p>The 2013 Readers' Choice Award nomination phase has begun!  This year there are nine categories:</p> <ul> <a href="http://pregnancy.about.com/od/readerschoiceaward/tp/2013-About-Com-Readers-Choice-Awards.htm"> <li>Pregnancy Blog</li> <li>Pregnancy App</li> <li>Pregnancy Product</li> <li>Labor Product</li> <li>Baby Shower Gift</li> <li>Product for an Expectant Dad</li> <li>Breastfeeding Product</li> <li>Pregnancy Magazine</li> <li>Pregnancy Fitness Product</li> </a> </ul> <p>I know you have products that you're loyal to personally. There are gifts you always give, and items that you own that you wouldn't trade for the world. There are blogs you read, long after the baby has been born. So now is your chance to say thanks by nominating them for one of these categories.  The nomination phase is open until February 11, 2013.  Don't delay.  <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/od/readerschoiceaward/tp/2013-About-Com-Readers-Choice-Awards.htm">You can read all of the rules of nominations at the page that details everything, including when to come back to vote.</a> You can also find other categories at the About.com Main page for the <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://awards.about.com/">Readers' Choice Awards</a>.</p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p> <p>Join the conversation!</p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/stay.htm">NEWSLETTER</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pinterest.com/source/pregnancy.about.com/">PINTEREST</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://twitter.com/About_Pregnancy">TWITTER</a></p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://facebook.com/aboutpregnancy">FACEBOOK</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=https://plus.google.com/b/101152721706405948264/">GOOGLE+</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/bio/Robin-Elise-Weiss-LCCE-103.htm">CONNECT</a></p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p><p style="background:#f5f3ef;border:1px solid #d5d0bf;clear:both;padding:.5em;"><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/14/nominations-open-for-readers-choice-awards-2013.htm">Nominations Open for Readers' Choice Awards 2013 </a> originally appeared on <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/">About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth</a> on Monday, January 14th, 2013 at 07:55:44.</p><p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/14/nominations-open-for-readers-choice-awards-2013.htm">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/14/nominations-open-for-readers-choice-awards-2013.htm#gB3">Comment</a> | <a href="http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/shareurl.htm?PG=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/14/nominations-open-for-readers-choice-awards-2013.htm&zItl=Nominations Open for Readers' Choice Awards 2013 ">Email this</a></p>

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Saturday, January 12, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: What chores do you hate while pregnant?

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What chores do you hate while pregnant?
Jan 12th 2013, 08:07

<p><img class="alignnone" src="http://0.tqn.com/h/pregnancy/1/H/9/n/3/iStock_000009073958XSmall.jpg" alt="Nesting before labor - pregnant woman" /></p> <p>That's the question I asked on Twitter and Facebook this week, mostly as a way to avoid my own housekeeping for a few minutes. The answers I got really surprised me:</p> <ul> <li>"...anything that means I have to get on the floor and get back up again (when heavily pregnant!)"</li> <li>"Cleaning out the fridge. *barf*"</li> <li>"Bathroom! The tub, the toilet, the floor! All of it. Yeah and bending and scrambling in tight places..."</li> </ul> <p>While there are a few examples of staying safe while cleaning in pregnancy, like avoiding certain chemicals, being in a well ventilated place, etc. Most of us are healthy enough to clean. (Sorry!)</p> <p>What chore do you hate?</p> <p><strong>Related:</strong></p> <ul> <li><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/od/stayinghealthy/a/cleaninginpregnancy.htm">Chores and Pregnancy</a></li> </ul> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p> <p>Join the conversation!</p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/stay.htm">NEWSLETTER</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pinterest.com/source/pregnancy.about.com/">PINTEREST</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://twitter.com/About_Pregnancy">TWITTER</a></p> <p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://facebook.com/aboutpregnancy">FACEBOOK</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=https://plus.google.com/b/101152721706405948264/">GOOGLE+</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/bio/Robin-Elise-Weiss-LCCE-103.htm">CONNECT</a></p> <p>. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .</p><P> <sub>Photo © iStockPhoto</sub><p style="background:#f5f3ef;border:1px solid #d5d0bf;clear:both;padding:.5em;"><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/12/what-chores-do-you-hate-while-pregnant.htm">What chores do you hate while pregnant?</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/">About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth</a> on Saturday, January 12th, 2013 at 08:07:32.</p><p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/12/what-chores-do-you-hate-while-pregnant.htm">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/12/what-chores-do-you-hate-while-pregnant.htm#gB3">Comment</a> | <a href="http://pregnancy.about.com/gi/pages/shareurl.htm?PG=http://pregnancy.about.com/b/2013/01/12/what-chores-do-you-hate-while-pregnant.htm&zItl=What chores do you hate while pregnant?">Email this</a></p>

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Thursday, January 10, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Does Hospital Pre-resgitration Matter in Labor?

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Pregnancy & Childbirth
Does Hospital Pre-resgitration Matter in Labor?
Jan 10th 2013, 09:32

Many hospitals offer pre-registration for labor and birth. It usually involves a basic form that asks about your name, insurance info and a bit of information about your pregnancy like your due date, midwife or doctor's name. But many people diligently turn in these forms every year only to have experiences like Mig. Mig says,

Pregnant Woman Checking in at Hospital

 

"I pre-registered at the hospital, brought a copy of the pre-registration, my husband was standing there with our insurance cards and all that crap, and the admittance nurse STILL wouldn't admit us until I, personally, in the throes of labor, gave her my name, address, and insurance information about a million times while she typed away with two fingers on what a swear must have been one of the original IBM desktops. She kept pointing at some poor woman moaning behind a curtain, saying, 'She's been here 3 hours already. You have time to fill out this paperwork.' It was absolute justice when my water broke all over the reception furniture and her shoes.  My son was in my arms less than 2 hours later."

Did you have any issues like this surrounding registration?  How did you handle it?

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Does Hospital Pre-resgitration Matter in Labor? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, January 10th, 2013 at 09:32:54.

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