Tuesday, June 18, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Where Do Babies Come From?

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Where Do Babies Come From?
Jun 18th 2013, 09:00

Second Pregnancy

Lots of parents worry about trying to talk to older children about where babies come from during a subsequent pregnancy. The good news is that there are a lot of books that are available to help answer even the most difficult of questions. The biggest thing to remember is that you should keep in mind, not only the age of the child, but also what the child is really asking. If you can arm yourself with a few good books and a straight face, you're good to go.

What's your funniest story about talking pregnancy and birth with your other kids?

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Where Do Babies Come From? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013 at 09:00:17.

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Sunday, June 16, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Fear of Childbirth

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Fear of Childbirth
Jun 17th 2013, 00:01

Take Charge Routine

An interesting study out of Norway caught my eye proclaiming that when women feared childbirth, their labors were about 47 minutes longer than those who did not fear childbirth. My gut reaction was, "Of course it does!" The doula in me has seen this hundreds of times.

There were some interesting points in this study. The epidural rates in both groups were incredibly low by American standards, 26.8% in the no fear group and only 44.8% in the fear group. They also found that the fear group had a higher rate of use of forceps/vacuum extraction. They postulate that the fear increases catecholamines, stress hormones, and therefore prolongs labor. This is the basic premise that most people who talk about stress in labor point out, though some catecholamines in labor are expected.

Communication with the practitioner is something that they bring up saying, "...fear of childbirth may be associated with poor communication." Then they say that not being about to communicate with the care provider may delay obstetric intervention and therefore delay labor. This may be more a product of the Norwegian system, because my take would be that the lack of communication may be part of the source of the fear to begin with, causing unwanted interventions.

I was pregnant at the same time that Olympic winning gymnast Mary Lou Retton had her first baby. I still recall watching her complete her routine three weeks after knee surgery, scoring a perfect 10 and thinking how horribly painful this must have been and how she described it as doing what she had to do to complete what she had trained for all those years. So when I listened to her talk about her fear of pain in labor, I was dumbfounded. How could she be afraid of labor after all of the aches and pains of being an Olympic gymnast? After all, her body was built for labor and it certainly was not built to withstand Olympic training. Listening to her made me realize that fear of labor wasn't the right way to look at it for me. So I came into my first birth with a healthy respect for labor, but not fear.

How do you manage fear or concerns about labor? That's where a good childbirth class, talking to your provider and a doula can all help. These all go to great lengths to address your personal fears about birth and parenting. Try not to feel overwhelmed. Finding the right support, which is sometimes professional, mental health support, can be very beneficial before labor.

Where do you fall in the healthy respect versus fear of labor scope?

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Adams, S. S., Eberhard-Gran, M., & Eskild, A. (2012). Fear of childbirth and duration of labour: a study of 2206 women with intended vaginal delivery. BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics & Gynaecology, no-no. doi: 10.1111/j.1471-0528.2012.03433.x

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Fear of Childbirth originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Monday, June 17th, 2013 at 00:01:25.

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Happy Father's Day!

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Happy Father's Day!
Jun 16th 2013, 13:53

Dad sleeping with toddler

Happy Father's Day!  Whether you're expecting a baby in your life soon, waiting to become a dad or just thinking about it, I hope you have a great day.  I'm spending the day with my family as we celebrate the dads in our lives. I'll leave you with a collection of articles just for dads about pregnancy.

Have a super day!

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Happy Father's Day! originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Sunday, June 16th, 2013 at 13:53:34.

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Saturday, June 15, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: When NOT to Exercise in Pregnancy

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When NOT to Exercise in Pregnancy
Jun 15th 2013, 10:23

Small Crunch on Ball

I know that I spend a lot of time talking to you about how to have a healthy pregnancy. This might mean that sometimes you have to back off of something that might be healthy for other individuals. While the many pregnant women don't get enough exercise, there are a number of women who need to avoid some, if not all, forms of exercise in pregnancy. The problem is that many of them may not even know it.

One day I had a conversation with a woman who was married to an OB/GYN. She told me that in her second pregnancy, her doctor (not her husband) had told her that she shouldn't "play tag." She told me that she now feels foolish for not understanding that he meant cut the fitness routines out. She thought he meant tag. Her husband took it to mean no sex. What's a mom to do? Ask questions.

Talk to your midwife or doctor specifically about exercise. What should you be doing, how often and what signs say you should stop.

Did your practitioner bring this up in your prenatal appointments?

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When NOT to Exercise in Pregnancy originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Saturday, June 15th, 2013 at 10:23:34.

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Friday, June 14, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: How to Use Your Birth Ball

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How to Use Your Birth Ball
Jun 14th 2013, 08:31

Pregnant Woman on Birth Ball

When I first started working with pregnant and laboring women, a birth ball was an oddity. As it's grown in popularity you find them nearly everywhere, even in workout rooms for non-pregnant women. So the word is out - birth balls are great for labor.

What I think has been slower in coming has been the use of a birth ball for other uses.  That would be things like comfort in pregnancy, exercise while pregnant and even using the ball after the baby is born for comforting the baby or getting back in shape.  Here's an article that hopefully will encourage you to try a thing or two you hadn't thought about with your birth ball.

What do you do with a birth ball?

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How to Use Your Birth Ball originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, June 14th, 2013 at 08:31:52.

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Thursday, June 13, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Will you celebrate Father's Day while pregnant?

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Will you celebrate Father's Day while pregnant?
Jun 13th 2013, 08:12

Pregnant Couple

It's Father's Day in the US this weekend, a day when we celebrate the dads in our lives. I was talking to a couple of moms-to-be the other day about their plans for Father's Day. Oddly enough they were not going to celebrate much if at all. One mom said she planned to give her boyfriend a card, and another said they were going to childbirth class. Other than that, it was going to be a normal day for these families. I asked if they had celebrated Mother's Day and they had. So why the disconnect?


These moms said that their partners were not that into the though of celebrating Father's Day. One said her husband felt it wasn't the same for dads as it was for moms; another said that he felt a bit superstitious about it, but wanted to let her celebrate Mother's Day.


What's YOUR family planning to do for Father's Day?

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Will you celebrate Father's Day while pregnant? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, June 13th, 2013 at 08:12:05.

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Wednesday, June 12, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Does Being a Republican or Democrat Shape Your Baby Naming Choices?

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Does Being a Republican or Democrat Shape Your Baby Naming Choices?
Jun 12th 2013, 10:42

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A recent article in the Washington Post's WonkBlog talks about the differences between baby naming styles of Republicans and Democrats. They give some references to who chooses what type of names. (Their article is based on data from research by the University of Chicago.)

Some of the themes they picked up on related to economics and education.

One example was that white mothers with at least some education who lived in Democratic areas were more likely to choose a name that was uncommon. They also said that Republic were also more likely to pick names that "signaled economic capital" - this includes names like Katherine and John. While the exact reason people choose baby names is up in the air for most, this was a really interesting read for people who enjoy baby names and data surrounding baby names.

How did you choose your baby's name?

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Does Being a Republican or Democrat Shape Your Baby Naming Choices? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013 at 10:42:18.

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