Monday, June 24, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Epidural or nothing?

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Epidural or nothing?
Jun 24th 2013, 08:54

Labor Partner

Talking to moms about their options for pain relief usually yields me very similar answers: I did my homework and I chose an epidural. My next question is always, what else did you consider? The vast majority say nothing.

This always leaves me feeling a bit puzzled - how can you make a choice if you only have one option? One of the first times I had this conversation was with a good friend, who had her baby years before we met. I asked her what her thought process was going into pregnancy and birth surrounding pain medication for labor. She said, "I didn't want to writhe around, so I got an epidural." Before I could stop myself, the automatic thing out of my mouth was, "There are other options other than writhing or an epidural."

She honestly had never considered that thought. In her mind, there were women who had epidurals and women who didn't. It was as simple as that. No one had ever told her that she had choices, lots of them.

Do you know what all of your choices are when it comes to relieving labor pain?

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Epidural or nothing? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Monday, June 24th, 2013 at 08:54:46.

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Saturday, June 22, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Stop Dissing Childbirth Class

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Stop Dissing Childbirth Class
Jun 22nd 2013, 10:14

Man Helping Laboring Woman on Ball

To tell you the truth, I hear a lot of childbirth class bashing going on these days. Parents are quick to say it's not worth it or they simply aren't interested without looking to see if it's something that might actually really benefit them for their labor.

That said, there is a perfect time and place for childbirth classes, and in my opinion that would be also every single pregnancy ever. Nor before you start dissing me too, at least look at why I think childbirth classes deserve a second look.

What's your experience been? What have you heard positively or negatively about childbirth classes?

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Stop Dissing Childbirth Class originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013 at 10:14:38.

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Friday, June 21, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Keeping Busy in Early Labor

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Keeping Busy in Early Labor
Jun 21st 2013, 09:20

Homemade Cake

A doula friend of mine just posted a photo of her client's birthday cake that she baked in labor. I thought it was an awesome project to keep her client busy in early labor. Now, you might be wondering why someone would need to be kept busy in early labor. We've all seen TV depictions of labor and it's all really fast and painful, right?

Actually early labor is not usually super painful and the contractions are really spaced out, which means that your mind is your own worst enemy. The best advice I have about early labor is to remember, it's largely a mental game. Stay comfortable and stay distracted. If you can't sleep, watch a move, go for a walk, etc. That's why having a plan to do something in early labor will be beneficial.

The client above was able to enjoy her cake with her labor and delivery nurses after her hard work. Now, doesn't that sound like an awesome birthday cake?

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Keeping Busy in Early Labor originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, June 21st, 2013 at 09:20:32.

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Thursday, June 20, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Scared to take a pregnancy test?

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Jun 20th 2013, 09:36

Pregnancy Test, Cake Pop, Hot Chocolate

I was answering my email the other day, and someone wrote me to ask if I thought she was pregnant. I get many such emails every day, and my answer is usually the same, "If you think you're pregnant, take a pregnancy test." This woman wrote back quickly, "But I'm afraid to take a pregnancy test..."

That's when it struck me, aren't we all at some level afraid to take a pregnancy test? Whether you're looking for a positive or a negative, there is that place before you truly know the answer that the plastic test stick provides that allows you to be in your quiet, but happy place. It's a time where you can dream of the perfect pregnancy and lovely baby, or erase birth control failures and the like. That is, until you take that test. Then you are catapulted into reality, which is sometimes exactly what you had hoped and dreamed for and sometimes not.

How did you feel before you took your pregnancy test?

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Scared to take a pregnancy test? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, June 20th, 2013 at 09:36:57.

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Tuesday, June 18, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Where Do Babies Come From?

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Where Do Babies Come From?
Jun 18th 2013, 09:00

Second Pregnancy

Lots of parents worry about trying to talk to older children about where babies come from during a subsequent pregnancy. The good news is that there are a lot of books that are available to help answer even the most difficult of questions. The biggest thing to remember is that you should keep in mind, not only the age of the child, but also what the child is really asking. If you can arm yourself with a few good books and a straight face, you're good to go.

What's your funniest story about talking pregnancy and birth with your other kids?

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Where Do Babies Come From? originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013 at 09:00:17.

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Sunday, June 16, 2013

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Fear of Childbirth

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Fear of Childbirth
Jun 17th 2013, 00:01

Take Charge Routine

An interesting study out of Norway caught my eye proclaiming that when women feared childbirth, their labors were about 47 minutes longer than those who did not fear childbirth. My gut reaction was, "Of course it does!" The doula in me has seen this hundreds of times.

There were some interesting points in this study. The epidural rates in both groups were incredibly low by American standards, 26.8% in the no fear group and only 44.8% in the fear group. They also found that the fear group had a higher rate of use of forceps/vacuum extraction. They postulate that the fear increases catecholamines, stress hormones, and therefore prolongs labor. This is the basic premise that most people who talk about stress in labor point out, though some catecholamines in labor are expected.

Communication with the practitioner is something that they bring up saying, "...fear of childbirth may be associated with poor communication." Then they say that not being about to communicate with the care provider may delay obstetric intervention and therefore delay labor. This may be more a product of the Norwegian system, because my take would be that the lack of communication may be part of the source of the fear to begin with, causing unwanted interventions.

I was pregnant at the same time that Olympic winning gymnast Mary Lou Retton had her first baby. I still recall watching her complete her routine three weeks after knee surgery, scoring a perfect 10 and thinking how horribly painful this must have been and how she described it as doing what she had to do to complete what she had trained for all those years. So when I listened to her talk about her fear of pain in labor, I was dumbfounded. How could she be afraid of labor after all of the aches and pains of being an Olympic gymnast? After all, her body was built for labor and it certainly was not built to withstand Olympic training. Listening to her made me realize that fear of labor wasn't the right way to look at it for me. So I came into my first birth with a healthy respect for labor, but not fear.

How do you manage fear or concerns about labor? That's where a good childbirth class, talking to your provider and a doula can all help. These all go to great lengths to address your personal fears about birth and parenting. Try not to feel overwhelmed. Finding the right support, which is sometimes professional, mental health support, can be very beneficial before labor.

Where do you fall in the healthy respect versus fear of labor scope?

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Adams, S. S., Eberhard-Gran, M., & Eskild, A. (2012). Fear of childbirth and duration of labour: a study of 2206 women with intended vaginal delivery. BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics & Gynaecology, no-no. doi: 10.1111/j.1471-0528.2012.03433.x

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Fear of Childbirth originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Monday, June 17th, 2013 at 00:01:25.

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Happy Father's Day!

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Happy Father's Day!
Jun 16th 2013, 13:53

Dad sleeping with toddler

Happy Father's Day!  Whether you're expecting a baby in your life soon, waiting to become a dad or just thinking about it, I hope you have a great day.  I'm spending the day with my family as we celebrate the dads in our lives. I'll leave you with a collection of articles just for dads about pregnancy.

Have a super day!

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Happy Father's Day! originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Sunday, June 16th, 2013 at 13:53:34.

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