Saturday, June 30, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: The World's Most Hilarious Birth Plan

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The World's Most Hilarious Birth Plan
Jun 30th 2012, 10:10

Birth Plan

There is a hilarious link floating around to a birth plan entitled: Jamie and Jeff's Birth Plan. It's totally tongue in cheek, but absolutely hilarious at the same time. I'm sure that there are some labor and delivery nurses who have read things that probably sound very close to that one.

So what should your birth plan say?  Well, that depends on what you want, where you're planning to give birth and some other things. Though, I can tell you what a birth plan is not:

  • a contract
  • only for people who are planning a home birth
  • only for people who are planning a hospital birth
  • only for people who want an unmedicated birth
  • only for people planning for an epidural

The whole point of a birth plan is to open up communications with your practitioners and the people who are with you when you give birth. Sometimes circumstances dictate that writing your thoughts down make it easiest to communicate it to people with you and other times writing it down is purely for you as a way to solidify your thoughts.

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Friday, June 29, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Fitness Friday: Yoga

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Fitness Friday: Yoga
Jun 29th 2012, 14:47

Yoga is a great exercise in pregnancy. Not only does it help stretch out your muscles and work out all the pregnancy related kinks in your body, but the effects that it can have on your stress level are amazing. So whether you've been doing yoga for years or you think pregnancy is a great time to start, these exercise are great for you to pick up and try out today. Check out these quick videos that walk you through each step and pose, explaining not only how it helps and why, but how to do it and modify the pose as your belly grows.

Which is your favorite yoga pose?

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Affordable Care Act and Maternity Care

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Jun 29th 2012, 09:13

Newborn hand

With the Supreme Court upholding the Affordable Care Act (ACA) yesterday, there are numerous provision that will alter the care for women in pregnancy and beyond.  Some of the big ones include that pre-exisiting conditions that are currently used against women, like a previous cesarean birth and being a victim of domestic violence, can't be used against them; extended coverage under medicaid for low and moderate income women to get basic maternity care; smoking cessation programs for pregnant women; expanded nurse midwifery payment; and others.  Here are some places to find out more about how ACA will change coverage in pregnancy:

It is also important to note that while some of these provisions have already taken effect, others will not go into effect until 2014.

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Affordable Care Act and Maternity Care originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, June 29th, 2012 at 09:13:56.

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Thursday, June 28, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Fear of Childbirth

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Jun 28th 2012, 12:18

Take Charge Routine

An interesting study out of Norway caught my eye proclaiming that when women feared childbirth, their labors were about 47 minutes longer than those who did not fear childbirth. My gut reaction was, "Of course it does!" The doula in me has seen this hundreds of times.

There were some interesting points in this study. The epidural rates in both groups were incredibly low by American standards, 26.8% in the no fear group and only 44.8% in the fear group. They also found that the fear group had a higher rate of use of forceps/vacuum extraction. They postulate that the fear increases catecholamines, stress hormones, and therefore prolongs labor. This is the basic premise that most people who talk about stress in labor point out, though some catecholamines in labor are expected.

Communication with the practitioner is something that they bring up saying, "...fear of childbirth may be associated with poor communication." Then they say that not being about to communicate with the careprovider may delay obstetric intervention and therefore delay labor. This may be more a product of the Norwegian system, because my take would be that the lack of communication may be part of the source of the fear to begin with, causing unwanted interventions.

I was pregnant at the same time that Olympic winning gymnast Mary Lou Retton had her first baby. I still recall watching her complete her routine three weeks after knee surgery, scoring a perfect 10, and thinking how horribly painful this must have been and how she described it as doing what she had to do to complete what she had trained for all those years. So when I listened to her talk about her fear of pain in labor, I was dumbfounded. How could she be afraid of labor after all of the aches and pains of being an Olympic gymnast? After all, her body was built for labor and it certainly was not built to withstand Olympic training. Listening to her made me realize that fear of labor wasn't the right way to look at it for me. So I came into my first birth with a healthy respect for labor, but not fear.

How do you manage fear or concerns about labor? That's where a good childbirth class, talking to your provider and a doula can all help. These all go to great lengths to address your personal fears about birth and parenting. Try not to feel overwhelmed. Finding the right support, which is sometimes professional, mental health support, can be very beneficial before labor.

Where do you fall in the healthy respect versus fear of labor scope?

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Adams, S. S., Eberhard-Gran, M., & Eskild, A. (2012). Fear of childbirth and duration of labour: a study of 2206 women with intended vaginal delivery. BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics & Gynaecology, no-no. doi: 10.1111/j.1471-0528.2012.03433.x

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Fear of Childbirth originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, June 28th, 2012 at 12:18:25.

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Ada's Birth

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Ada's Birth
Jun 28th 2012, 09:05

Lucky Seven at Birth

My daughter, Ada, turns seven today. Having had six previous children and five births (one set of twins), I thought I knew a thing or two about how I labored. Boy was I wrong!

Ada's labor proved to be much harder than I could have ever imagined. It was my shortest labor and probably one of my hardest labors. Her birth was a wild one. The story involves a mad dash in the car, a half naked husband and the air conditioner repair man. Here are the birth story and photos from the home birth of our baby we nicknamed, "Lucky Number Seven."

Ada's birth was a blur in some respects but something a certain air conditioner repair man will never, ever forget...

Did you have any crazy stories from your labor?

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Ada's Birth originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, June 28th, 2012 at 09:05:28.

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Tuesday, June 26, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Scared to take a pregnancy test?

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Scared to take a pregnancy test?
Jun 26th 2012, 12:36

Pregnancy Test, Cake Pop, Hot Chocolate

I was answering my email the other day and someone wrote me to ask if I thought she was pregnant. I get many such emails every day, and my answer is usually the same, "If you think you're pregnant, take a pregnancy test." This woman wrote back quickly, "But I'm afraid to take a pregnancy test..."

That's when it struck me, aren't we all at some level afraid to take a pregnancy test? Whether you're looking for a positive or a negative, there is that place before you truly know the answer that the plastic test stick provides that allows you to be in your quiet, but happy place. It's a time where you can dream of the perfect pregnancy and lovely baby, or erase birth control failures and the like. That is, until you take that test. Then you are catapulted into reality, which is sometimes exactly what you had hoped and dreamed for and sometimes not.

How did you feel before you took your pregnancy test?

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Monday, June 25, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Dads Catching Babies

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Jun 25th 2012, 09:25

Daddy Catching New Baby

Move over cutting the cord! Dads have come a long way since the days of the waiting room. While women used to fight to have a significant other present, now the hospital doors have been flung open wide to accept others, albeit with some limits in some settings. One thing I'm seeing more of when I work as a doula in the hospital, is family members, like dad or partner, catching the baby.

I started seeing this at home births, in fact, it was a fairly common occurrence. I personally never thought it would fly in the hospital environment. (Though I've been working in hospital birth long enough so that I remember when every vaginal birth saw everyone draped and dressed!)Though I'm delighted to report that many of the hospitals and practitioners are doing this in my area.

The families who choose to do this are very happy and excited about their choices. Have you ever considered having someone assist your practitioner in catching the baby?

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Dads Catching Babies originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Monday, June 25th, 2012 at 09:25:05.

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Saturday, June 23, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Breastfeeding and Exercise

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Jun 23rd 2012, 10:15

Mom Jogging with New Baby in Stroller

A recent study looked at breastfeeding and exercise when it came to how infants grew. The study combined what was already out there and looked at whether or not there were effects on the growth of infants. While it's already known that babies who are breast fed grow differently than babies who are not breast fed, this looked at a mom's activity specifically.

This was a small look at moms and babies and they've proposed more studies, but given the fact that breastfeeding is good for babies and moms and exercise is good for moms, they believe it is completely appropriate to recommend that mothers engage in both, rather than to delay the return to exercise.

What are your plans to exercise after baby?

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Daley, Amanda J., Thomas, Adele, Cooper, Helen, Fitzpatrick, Hannah, McDonald, Catherine, Moore, Heather, . . . Deeks, Jonathan J. (2012). Maternal Exercise and Growth in Breastfed Infants: A Meta-analysis of Randomized Controlled Trials. Pediatrics. doi: 10.1542/peds.2011-2485

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Breastfeeding and Exercise originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Saturday, June 23rd, 2012 at 10:15:45.

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Friday, June 22, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Fitness Friday: Small Crunches in Pregnancy

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Jun 22nd 2012, 14:56

Perhaps you've heard that ab work in pregnancy is a no no. You heard wrong. Here are some small crunches performed on a ball.

Have you ever tried a ball for crunches?

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Fitness Friday: Small Crunches in Pregnancy originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, June 22nd, 2012 at 14:56:51.

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Dads and Postpartum Depression

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Jun 22nd 2012, 09:02

Newborn Baby

There is a myth out there that says only moms can have depression or blues related to being pregnant or having a baby. This simply isn't true. Science & Sensibility has some nice blog posts that talk about signs and symptoms in dads and consequences and support.

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Dads and Postpartum Depression originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, June 22nd, 2012 at 09:02:07.

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Thursday, June 21, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Don't Drink in Pregnancy Physician Group Says

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Don't Drink in Pregnancy Physician Group Says
Jun 21st 2012, 08:57

Alcoholic Drink

There has been a flurry of news articles written about alcohol in pregnancy after a study was released this past week on the topic of alcohol and pregnancy. While many news outlets are running headlines that say small amounts of alcohol are fine in pregnancy, that is not what the study says. In fact, the study actually says, "Furthermore, as no safe level of drinking during pregnancy has been established, the most conservative advice for women is not to drink alcohol during pregnancy."

So put down your wine glasses for a minute and consider this tweet warning from the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists:

Drinking during pregnancy: the jury may be out for researchers, but ACOG recommends that pregnant women avoid alcohol

Given the potential risks associated with alcohol, you probably want to get advice from your midwife or doctor that you trust.  Make your decision based on their knowledge of you and your medical history and your comfortable level.  Let the news outlets have their say, but remember, at the end of the day, you wind up living with the potential consequences.

This is why it is so difficult to get good studies of risks on pregnant women. You can't randomly assign pregnant women to a group where they think there may be harm involved, like drinking or smoking.

Have you talked to your practitioner yet?

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Kesmodel U, Bertrand J, Støvring H, Skarpness B, Denny C, Mortensen E, the Lifestyle During Pregnancy Study Group. The effect of different alcohol drinking patterns in early to mid pregnancy on the child's intelligence, attention, and executive function. BJOG 2012; DOI: 10.1111/j.1471-0528.2012.03393.x.

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Don't Drink in Pregnancy Physician Group Says originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Thursday, June 21st, 2012 at 08:57:32.

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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Teen Births Continue to Drop As Older Mothers Have More Babies

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Jun 19th 2012, 09:39

Newborn baby in a cocoon

Today the CDC released a new report entitled "Estimated Pregnancy Rates and Rates of Pregnancy Outcomes for the United States, 1990-2008". Though the data isn't really that shocking. The basic summary is that the teen pregnancy rate continues to dropped to 68.9 teens (ages 15-19) per 1000. That's a 40% drop in the teen pregnancy rate since 1990.

The other non-surprising news was that births to older mothers continues to rise.  In fact, the birth rates in women ages 40-44 have steadily increased since 1991. Births to moms who were in the early 20s dropped to a low in the recording period (1990-2008). There were a total of 6,578,00 births in 2008.

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Teen Births Continue to Drop As Older Mothers Have More Babies originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Tuesday, June 19th, 2012 at 09:39:06.

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Monday, June 18, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Blinged Out Pregnancy Tests

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Jun 18th 2012, 11:10

Blinged Out Pregnancy Test

Back when I did a lot of scrapbooking, I found these tiny gems that had glue on the back.  You could put them anywhere and boy did I! Then came the whole revolution of bling. You could bling anything from clothing to cards and there was even something called Vajazzling. (It's the use of spiraling gems to decorate your bikini area.) My husband asked me if they came out with pregnancy tests that were covered in bling when he saw a pacifier covered in gemstones.

From that point on we started joking about why you'd have a gemstone encrusted pregnancy test.  Here are some of the ideas we came up with:

  • The reward for the most pregnancy tests taken in one pregnancy.
  • Birth stones specific to the due date of the baby conceived. (So if I knew I was due in April, I'd use diamond colored gemstones, but emeralds for May.)
  • To have as a funny pregnancy announcement.
  • For the mom-to-be with a ton of gemstones left over from home made cards.
  • For the mom-to-be who simply loves gemstones on everything.
  • They make prettier keepsakes.

Have you ever blinded a pregnancy test or anything else related to baby?  Send your photo in and you might see it added to the site. Be sure to tell me what you did it for and why!

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Blinged Out Pregnancy Tests originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Monday, June 18th, 2012 at 11:10:24.

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Sunday, June 17, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: What can dads do?

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Jun 17th 2012, 10:35

Kevin carries Isaac

I saw a Facebook post the other day asking the question: What can a dad do other than breastfeed?  It made me think of all the times society answers that with: Change diapers! That's sort of sad, isn't it?  I mean, no one really wants to change diapers. So I started coming up with some fun things that dads can do with babies.

  • Wear the baby
  • Bathe baby
  • Read to baby
  • Sing to baby
  • Take walks with baby
  • Do baby massage
  • Snuggle skin to skin with baby
  • Skype with baby to see distant relatives

Basically anything except breastfeed... So as you all think about Father's Day, what is on your lists?

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Friday, June 15, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Fitness Friday: Chest Press for Pregnancy

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Jun 15th 2012, 15:07

One of the nice things about the chest press is that there are a variety of ways that you can do it. You can do it one at a time or alternating sides. What I like is using this as a great way to break up whatever I'm doing and make it exercise. This is great for when you're putting away the groceries - just insert a can of beans in place of the dumbbells and you're all set.

Which way will you do the chest press?

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Fitness Friday: Chest Press for Pregnancy originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, June 15th, 2012 at 15:07:16.

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About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Confession About Father's Day

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Jun 15th 2012, 11:06

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My husband is someone who thinks that Father's Day is a made up holiday and therefore we shouldn't celebrate it. On the other hand, I'm of the, any reason is a good reason to celebrate, type. This leaves us in a dilemma. (I should add he feels the same way about Valentine's Day, Sweetest Day, Mother's Day, etc.)

These are the types of discussions that no one really has before you get married, even when you try to think about all of the important things to discuss about having children beforehand. When you add to the fact that perhaps you are still pregnant and the baby isn't here yet, it might make you wonder if you should celebrate.

My first Father's Day where I was pregnant, about 16 weeks, you can bet I wanted to celebrate. In trying to be sweet, I surprised my husband with a cake and two balloons (one pink and one blue). The cake said, "Happy 1st Father's Day!"  The response I got was lackluster, which of course made me tear up being pregnant and all. I wrote it off as him simply wanting to wait to celebrate after the birth. Next year, pretty much the same deal.

When I finally got around to talking to him about it, I was floored. Now we have a mutual understanding. We use the time as a family day. We have a tradition of going hiking and having a big breakfast together. The kids make him things and he hugs and thanks them. He tolerates the "Happy Father's Day" sentiments all around town and we have a great time.

So what's the deal in your family?

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Confession About Father's Day originally appeared on About.com Pregnancy & Childbirth on Friday, June 15th, 2012 at 11:06:36.

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Tuesday, June 12, 2012

About Pregnancy & Childbirth: Did Facebook become Babybook?

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Jun 12th 2012, 09:11

Dad and Newborn

It was rather odd that I saw that question posted and discussed to death this weekend on Facebook as I had just read a study about how new mothers spend more time on Facebook after the birth of their baby. So the discussion went something like this: If someone is a new parent, particularly a mom, their Facebook page is likely to be taken over with baby photos and talk than anything else. The moms replied: duh. The study found that 44% of new moms spent more time on Facebook after baby than before.

This is something that I've talked about before from my personal point of view - Facebook was around at 3 a.m. when my baby was awake and I needed some adult time. I'd be up feeding or pumping and it was fall asleep while doing those activities or meander around Facebook. In fact, I know I posted, on more than one occasion, that I wished people would post more late at night to give me something to read in the wee hours of the day.

Now, from a professional point of view, I talked to other childbirth educators and doulas about watching client activity late at night. Did new moms post more?  Were they asking for help? Talking about how hard life was with a new baby?  I speculated that perhaps this was a new way to monitor some moms for signs of trouble, like postpartum depression. If we saw something, we could reach out and say, as an example, "I see you're posting that you are having trouble with breastfeeding. Can I help connect you to a professional?"

So as a mom or dad, what's your take on Facebook and baby updates?

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Bartholomew, Mitchell K., Schoppe-Sullivan, Sarah J., Glassman, Michael, Kamp Dush, Claire M., & Sullivan, Jason M. (2012). New Parents' Facebook Use at the Transition to Parenthood. Family Relations, 61(3), 455-469. doi: 10.1111/j.1741-3729.2012.00708.x

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